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| *Ostroff, Fair and Company>>>Personal Finance |
Honestly what do u think of my fiance of 2 months.He asked me to pay off his large debt(30k)? |
when i asked him what he would do if i said no he said he could not understand why i would not "help him out" and would have to reconsider our relationship as he would do it for me.Now i could do this but feel funny him asking me and not at all happy with his anwser.This debt is not from a medical problem but from his last divorce and money trying to "wine and dine" the old gf he left his wife for(not me) I only have 10K of debt - marry me! No seriously, I totally disagree with the other repondents. How is he going to pay this debt off? Answer: with money that he would have been contributing to your marriage anyway. Whichever way you look at it, you will end up paying one way or another. The man has some chutzpah asking his 2 month GF to pay his 30K debt. You are getting played, I would kick the man to the curb. Two months and a fiance. He works fast - you need to ice down his play. Does he really love you or wants a surgar momma? I'm a guy and have pride. I don't ask for money to anyone. Try finding out if he really have feelings for you. I don't want you to get your heart broken. It's not cool. (God I'm so cool) <--- This dude. RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... You are dealing with a manipulative player. If you pay his bills now you will pay them forever. The relationship will only last as long as you pay his bills or he figures out that you aren't going to pay his bills. A fool and her money quickly part. Don't be a fool girl, you worked to hard for your money. You've been smart so far by not giving him the money now be smarter by dropping that scrub. Don't do it. Life |
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